Coping With The Biggest Cause Of Insomnia

Insomnia:

The most common cause for insomnia is stress and worry about your everyday life. For example there may be problems at work that are keeping you awake, or you may be having financial difficulties. Maybe your partner is causing you grief? Whatever happens we need to find a way for you to isolate these thoughts and lock them away at will so that you can sleep well and awake refreshed and rejuvenated.

The most powerful technique I have come across to help combat this problem involves considerable self-examination. Take the time whenever your mind starts to wonder in bed and you feel unable to sleep to examine your thoughts and take note of the issues that keep on cropping up.

After a week or so you should have a pretty comprehensive list so put aside some time when you are reasonably awake to be alone. This is "me time" and for best results you should ensure that you are not disturbed so if necessary go for a drive or a walk to escape the noise and mayhem of everyday life.

You then need to explore each of your concerns, logically, on paper. Look at the problem and how you might solve it. Brainstorm solutions no matter how extreme they may be and take the time to assess your solutions at length so that after some time you start to feel somewhat calmer.

One thing that many people find is that actually facing the stresses and strains of life head on in a positive, problem-solving way will reap real benefits in creating solutions.

There are two final stages to this puzzle now that you have your list of problems and solutions.

Firstly, have the guts to start making those changes you have devised. Only by doing this will you truly rid yourself of these concerns and feel able to sleep properly. With each problem that you cross off your list you will find yourself becoming happier and less stressed. Life will seem more colorful and enjoyable and with luck you will find yourself better able to sleep at night.

Be aware that some solutions can take time to implement, while others may unfortunately be physically impossible which is where the final stage comes in - release. You need to get into the habit every night before bed of going back to your journal and noting down anything that has arisen during the day that you feel is causing you stress.

Then leave it there.

Whilst it will take plenty of practise initially, make a promise to yourself that once a problem is written down in the book, you will not think about it again until the following day.

Most often the problem will have solved itself by the end of the next day, and if not then problems never seem so quite bad in the cold light of day where you may realise it's not so bad after all, or at worst you will be in a better frame of mind to formulate a solution.

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